Cookies, Milk, and a Message From a Departed Pet

Published 11 months ago • 1 min read

Hi Reader,

I've been diving down a deep rabbit hole of animal altars on Pinterest. This was prompted by a powerful animal message during a recent pet reading, and now I feel SO inspired to finally create one in my new apartment!

I've been getting intuitive nudges to do this for months, but this reading was the final push I needed. Another beautiful reminder of how connected we are—y'all come into my life right when I need it, too.

Here’s what happened:
A client came to me with a question I’d never asked a pet before: “Will my cat who passed ever visit me in my dreams?” She’s had lucid dreams before but hadn’t seen her cat yet, and she was longing for that connection.

When I asked her departed cat what her human needed to know, the response surprised me. It was sweet and festive—her cat showed me cookies and milk by a fireplace, just like leaving treats for Santa. 🍪🥛💌
The message? Create an offering.

My client loved the idea and couldn’t wait to try it. This moment reminded me how small, intentional rituals can bring us closer to our pets and loved ones in spirit. If you’re missing a pet this holiday season, why not give it a shot?

Here are 4 Steps to Connect with Your Pet in Spirit:
1. Select an Offering
Choose something meaningful to your departed pet (a toy, treat, or item they loved)

2. Write a Letter
In the letter, invite your pet to visit you in your dreams or in a way that is significant to you. You can even imagine writing this letter in your head as you lie in bed.

3. Pick a Spot
Place the offering and letter in a quiet, special spot (in a stocking, on your altar, or somewhere they spent a lot of time)

4. Last, but not least﹣Be Open
Be receptive to their efforts to amaze you. Have patience; Your beloved pet might respond to your invitation when you least expect it.

Happy Holidays,
Shay
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P.S. Let me know if you'll be doing this too ﹣ Hit reply and keep me updated!

Want to learn more about connecting with your pet this holiday season?

Listen to my guest appearance on the Whisker Report podcast:
“What Does Your Pet Want for Christmas?” ❤️💚

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